Is there a cure for that, Dr?
After one too many bad relationships and break-ups, I am officially diagnosing myself as, “relationship challenged”. I wonder if there’s a pill for that…
After one too many bad relationships and break-ups, I am officially diagnosing myself as, “relationship challenged”. I wonder if there’s a pill for that…
The last time I made a post here I was unemployed and going through a rather major transition. Since then, I have moved from Olathe to Lawrence, started a new job in KC, went to my prom date’s wedding, painstakingly stood by as my dad went through triple bypass surgery, met a cousin I never knew existed then discovered she had breast cancer.
Yowsers! What a crazy 5 months it has been! I’ll get to the details later but in the meantime, everyone is doing OK and I think we will all make it see 2011. So rest assured.
Up next…
So stay tuned!!
Being unemployed sounds so glamorous when you are stuck in a cubicle 5 days a week. But for those like me who hate sitting at home day in and day out (and not spend money!), being unemployed can become a drag. And so I present to you, my new hobby…
This is a white cake with meringue frosting and fresh strawberries to top. I wasn’t completely satisfied with the recipe since the cake turned out a little dry but it was pretty scrumptious so I would definitely make it again. :)
I love baking not only because it’s fun measuring out the ingredients and watching a ball of dough transform into something as beautiful as this but also because it’s usually pretty inexpensive.
Unless…..
you like fun appliances like I do. Yes, I splurged and bought a Kitchenaid stand mixer today and I absolutely love it.
No more hand mixing! Which means much more baking in the near future. Stay tuned!!
OK Go has a new video out for their song, End Love. I thought it was hilarious. Check it out here:
You all may know by now that I do not watch TV, primarily because it’s full of unintelligent humor, saturated with sex and contains countless amounts of ads. But you already knew that.
No, this time I’m writing about a show that has come to earn my respect the last few months. Yes, it’s The Colbert Report with Stephen Colbert.
Launching in 2005, The Colbert Report has earned quite a name for itself. In 2009, Stephen Colbert and his writing team brought home an Emmy for Outstanding Writing for a Variety, Music or Comedy Program. The year before that, the show earned the Peabody Award for Excellence in Broadcasting. The show is obviously a favorite of many so why is it a love/hate relationship with Stephen and I?
The man is highly creative. No question. He’s well-known for his brashness and ballsy jokes but there comes a time when it starts becoming over-the-top. Meaning, he’s trying to hard. I hate seeing that in comedians (or any entertainer for that matter). It starts feeling unnatural and overly scripted.
The other issue I have with Colbert (and this goes along with the “trying to hard” theme I mentioned above) is that he constantly cuts people off. Whether he’s conducting interviews with guests or conversing with others in skits, he never shuts up. It’s uncomfortable to watch: Guest is promoting a book, Colbert rudely interrupts to crack a joke. Guest is talking about his/her family, Colbert interrupts again to crack a joke. And it goes on and on! Finally I have to turn the channel because the rudeness and obnoxiousness has become too overwhelming to handle.
You’re probably thinking, “Stacie, comedians do this all the time. That’s what makes them funny.”
Don’t get me wrong, I think the guy is hilarious. I often find myself laughing out loud (while the dog and cat give me questioning looks.) He does have a stellar reputation to live up to and I know how tough that can be.. Soo..I will keep watching him, but maybe only in small doses.
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Do you hate conformity?
Do you choose locally owned stores to do the majority of your shopping?
Do you believe in limited governmental interference?
Are you against animal-testing?
Do you believe in environmental conservation?
If you answered yes to one or more of these questions, you may be a “Freeganist”.
According to my good friend Wikipedia, “freeganism” is an anti-consumerist lifestyle whereby people employ alternative living strategies based on “limited participation in the conventional economy and minimal consumption of resources”. Sounds like a simple enough lifestyle, right? Truth is, freeganism is actually much more. Take a look below and see if you could be a “true” freeganist:
Foraging
We’ve all heard of dumpster-diving and I’m sure many of my readers (including myself) have partaken in some dumpster-diving action themselves. But would you sift through someone else’s trash to selvage left-over food? Freeganists do.
Sharing
We were all taught to share our toys when we were younger, right? In fact, we were reprimanded if we didn’t share. Why then, as adults, are we looked on as “different” if we shop at Goodwill for our clothes or purchase our furniture from Craigslist? Try doing your grocery shopping at a coop such as The Merc. Freeganists do.
Squatting
Not just for bums anymore folks, squatting can now be viewed as a political statement. More and more are choosing to live in vacated buildings (squatting) not because they can’t afford to pay rent but rather to show “the man” that housing should be a right, not a privilege. Spend a few nights in the cold without water or electricity. Freeganists do.
Humanure Composting
So you’ve been carpooling and turning your heat down to save energy? Why not take it a step further and create your own toilet? All you need are a few simple materials: a toilet receptacle, organic cover material, and an outdoor composting bin. For an inexpensive fertilizer, try feeding your flowers human feces. Freeganists do.
Working Less
This my friends is, in my opinion, the best idea yet. It’s really very simple: consuming less means working less. Yep, the idea here is that if you are using a minimal amount of energy you could save money and therefore work LESS. Working is seen as sacrificing valuable time to “take orders from someone else, stress, boredom, monotony, and in many cases risks to physical and psychological well-being”. Now come on, go quit your job so that you can go live LIFE! Freeganists do.
Ok, so I might have been slightly sarcastic with this post. I do not personally know any freeganists nor am I one myself. I may not be in favor of quitting my job so that I can go live in a box in the alley and poop in a box made of sawdust …BUT…. I think we could all use a sliver of the their ambition!
For as long as I can remember, I have always procastinated. It started in highschool then slowly progressed as I inched my way through college. I always seemed to find something better to do than the task I knew I should be doing. It eventually became a habit in that each time an assignment was due, I found myself doing things I wouldn’t normally be doing: scrubbing the kitchen floor, organizing my closet, giving the dog a bath, etc. etc.
Ok, so we’ve all done it. Guilty as charged. But- is it procastination at work or something else?
In his article, Robert Biswas-Diener writes about a trait he calls, the “incubator”. This person succumbs to the distractions just like any procastinator, but unlike the latter, incubators get their tasks done on time and with excellent quality. Procastinators, on the other hand, often miss deadlines and/or submit spotchy work. Biswas-Diener goes on to say that incubators “tend to be bright, creative people with an amazing gift to work hard under pressure. As such, they can be very dependable in work situations that require last-minute changes or tight deadlines.”
So the question is: Are you a Procastinator or an Incubator?
Use the scale below to answer the following questions:
4 – Perfectly describes me
3 – Describes me somewhat
2 – Does not really describe me
1 – Does not describe me at all
A. _____ I always get my work completed on time.
B. _____ The quality of my work is superior.
C. _____ It takes a looming deadline to motivate me.
D. _____ When I finally get to work, I feel highly engaged.
E. _____ I surprise myself by moving into action at the last minute.
F. _____ I do my best work under pressure.
If you scored a 20 or higher, you may be an incubator.
To read the full article, visit www.cnn.com “Are you a procrastinator or an incubator?” Robert Biswas-Diener 16 Feb 2010
I eat this everyday for breakfast. I actually keep milk in the fridge at work so that I am never without a bowl of cereal.
Another staple part of my diet is sugar. Without sugar I would cease to exist (seriously, I have a problem). These are some sugar cookies I baked on Sunday. I always bring my baked goods in to work to share with my co-workers. They complain about this a lot ( ”Oh.. I really shouldn’t! I’m trying to lose weight..”) but I know deep down they love it when I show up with a platter full of yummy goodness at 7:30am.
Throw in a pop (no, not soda, soda pop or a pepsi. It’s a coke zero for God’s sakes) and you’re ready for work!
Disclaimer: This blog is for entertainment use only. No kick-backs are being given for product placement. However, it should be noted that I am not against the idea. In fact, I highly encourage it.
By BRADLEY BROOKS, Associated Press Writer Bradley Brooks, Associated Press Writer – Fri Feb 5, 6:31 pm ET
RIO DE JANEIRO – She is the Shirley Temple of samba, a 7-year-old named to a coveted Carnival role normally reserved for barely clad models who have undergone more plastic surgeries than little Julia Lira has seen birthdays.
Naming the girl drum corps queen for the Viradouro samba group is raising eyebrows even in a city that has seen everything during the annual mega-party that begins next week.
A judge is considering blocking Julia’s participation. A state agency that defends children’s rights says she’s too young to take on a traditionally sexy role. But the girl’s father, who happens to be the president of the Viradouro group, says Julia is a natural who can easily samba through the 80-minute parade route in Rio’s sweltering summer heat.
“Any man who looks at a 7-year-old child and feels any sort of excitement should go see a doctor,” Marco Lira said before rehearsal this week. “She has the aptitude to be a drum corps queen — you’ll see it tonight. She has a seriousness inside of her when she is on the stage.”
At the delicate core of Julia’s case is the queen’s traditional role in Rio’s Carnival: that of sexy muse. Unlike other participants, she is usually not bare-chested and wears more than just glitter. But queen costumes would be considered revealing by any estimation.
Brazil has long had a problem with sexual exploitation of children, especially in the lawless Amazon region. Allowing Julia to be a drum corps queen “would increase the treatment of children as sexual objects in Brazilian society,” said Carlos Nicodemos, director of the Rio de Janeiro state Council for the Defense of Children and Adolescents.
“We’re not against kids participating in Carnival; it’s part of Brazilian culture,” Nicodemos said. “What we can’t allow is putting a 7-year-old girl in a role that traditionally for Carnival has a very sexual focus.”
The competition among the 12 top-tier samba groups is fierce, and the winners are hailed by fans across Brazil. Viradouro, which won the title in 1997, is no stranger to controversy. In 2008, a judge blocked the group’s use of a dancer dressed as Hitler on a float loaded with naked people representing Holocaust victims after the display caused an international outcry.
Julia’s fate is now in the hands of a family court in Rio. The judge examining the case, Ivone Ferreira Caetano, has declined to comment or say when she will make a decision.
Marco Lira said the judge requested information about the girl’s role, what time the group was scheduled to makes its presentation — now slated for just after midnight on Feb. 14 — and what Julia would be wearing.
At practice this week, Julia danced in a poofy, white miniskirt, sequined halter top and silver-heeled sandals, a tiara atop her head.
While the details of parade themes and costumes are closely guarded secrets in Rio’s Carnival, a Viradouro artistic director said Julia’s outfit would be suitable for a child.
“We’re taking the necessary precautions because she isn’t going to be a muse,” Edson Pereira said on the group’s Web site. “We can’t transform a girl into a woman, much less explore any sensuality.”
Just before Tuesday’s rehearsal, Julia was roughhousing with two other girls inside her dad’s office. She stopped playing only when her mother, Monica, told her it was time to get dressed for practice.
A gregarious girl with a toothy grin, she declined to say much, despite the coaxing of her parents and samba instructor. She didn’t like how her mother had fixed her hair and was in no mood to talk to a reporter.
Asked why she wanted to be the drum corps queen, Julia would only say quietly:
“I’m happy because I like to dance.”
That much is clear.
When she took the stage in front of more than 1,000 people at the rehearsal, she lit up as she presented a bouquet of roses to 30-year-old Juliana Paes, a top Brazilian actress who served as Viradouro’s drum queen for five years. Once the beats from the drum corps erupted, Julia dove into her samba routine.
Beyond the question of appropriateness is whether a 4-foot-tall (1.2-meter) girl weighing about 55 pounds (25 kilograms) can physically withstand the dancing during Viradouro’s parade.
At the rehearsal, she was handed cups of water within 10 minutes of taking the stage and in 20 minutes started to look tired.
Her father emphasized that several people would be watching after her during the parade, that she would be able to rest and that every precaution would be taken to safeguard her health.
Regardless, some Carnival fans don’t see how Julia could be considered for the role.
“She is way too young to be parading down the avenue,” said Jaquelene Oliveira, a 19-year-old college student. “The role of the drum corps queen is to inspire the drummers to play hard for 80 minutes. It is an innately sexual role and to put a child in that position is wrong.”
532]The amount of grain needed to fill the tank of an SUV with ethanol just once could feed one person for an entire year.
The rise of hunger is not stopping the U.S. government from mandating that food be used for fuel (as outlined in the Renewable Fuel Standard). However, as the Earth Policy Institute has noted, even if the entire U.S. grain crop were converted to ethanol (leaving no domestic crop to make bread, rice or pasta, or feed the animals from which we get meat, milk and eggs), it would satisfy at most 18 percent of U.S. automotive fuel needs.
I appreciate the efforts made by the U.S. government in trying to protect the environment. However, does it seem ethical to take food away from people so that we can drive our SUVs to the grocery store that is located less than 8 blocks away? Here’s an idea: INCREASE PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION.
Kansas City residents recently voted against a bill that would’ve added a transportation system that spanned the downtown area to different parts of the suburbs. Why did the bill get the boot? Because people didn’t want to pay a few extra tax dollars to improve the state of our environment.
So what can we do to help?
By doing one or more of these, you can help solve hunger by reducing the demand for corn that is being used for fuel rather than food.
For more information, visit motherearthnews.com.
Thanks for listening.. (err.. reading).